month refresh 2025.12

timeless

和单个人打交道,心意大于排场,因为要体现独一份和唯一性;和一群人打交道,排场大于心意,因为众口难调。

keyword

  • the end of 2025
  • recovery
  • preparation
  • the aws-cdk project

journal

  • not a thing archieved in Dec
  • at least I learned that, Oct 31 = Dec 25 (x)
  • spent quite a lot of time to prepare the materials for the residential application, but still, I didn’t know if I was qualified
  • my knee didn’t recover yet, and I was building up the habit of lifting dumb-bells
  • the life was overall ordinary, regular sleep and food-drink, stayed home at weekends

conclusion

probably work and life balanced.

review

  • work progressed smoothly?
  • should put more concentration on left knee

resolution

  • consistent piano practice
  • consistent exercise
  • complete “death” course
  • complete “on 30” sharing
  • residential application

sharing

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|序号|“好处”名称|核心反讽(剥削警示)|视频关键金句/例子|
|---|---|---|---|
|1|天使级融资体验|半生积蓄换灵魂惨败,无限期期权|“清算灵魂和钱包的双重惨败”|
|2|全天候情绪价值班|永不毕业的情感劳工,公共情绪输出|“如老僧入定”的耐受力|
|3|个人财产精准扶贫|财富转身她所有,私房钱间谍刺激|“合二为一斤三斤还腐败,渺茫”|
|4|自动获得原罪|道德显微镜下永错,呼吸/沉默皆罪|“总有一款罪名适合您”|
|5|法律条款温情默默|离婚清零教育,房渐远工资一半她名|“物质同步清零的普法”|
|6|成熟男人认证证书|从少年到寡人,幻想全无钓鱼养老|“生活的重压雕刻冷酷”|
|7|人性悲观认知|海誓退色,利益变脸,经不起考验|“永远不要考验人性”|
|8|稳定性生活|稳定减少/拒绝,到归零佛性飞跃|“与手机争宠的终点站”|
|9|社会稳定贡献|燃烧自己促GDP,安抚长辈离婚暗源|“何等崇高的利他主义”|
|10|脱胎换骨荡产体验|反人性修行,亲家荡产珍贵陷阱|“支持版本加速的福报”|
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### 1. 核心误区:$c$ 不仅仅是“光速”

**文稿观点:** “并不是专门为光设定的……而是宇宙本身有一个最高速度。光子因为没有质量,所以能顶着这个最高速度跑而已。”

**深度解析:**

- **因果律的速度(Speed of Causality):** 在物理学中,常数 $c$(每秒 299,792,458 米)通常被称为光速,但它更本质的定义是**因果律传播的最高速度**。你可以把宇宙想象成一台计算机,$c$ 就是信息在两个点之间传递的极限速度。
- **为什么是光?** 光子(Photon)没有**静止质量**。质量本质上是对运动的阻碍(惯性)。因为光子没有“负担”,所以它们**被迫**以宇宙允许的极限速度飞行。如果引力波或胶子也是无质量的,它们同样必须以 $c$ 运行。

### 2. 我们都在以“光速”移动(在四维时空中)

**文稿观点:** “站在我旁边的你其实也是以光速移动的……你在四维时空里一直没停过。”

**深度解析:**

- **四维速度矢量:** 这是**闵可夫斯基时空(Minkowski Spacetime)** 的核心概念。想象你驾驶一辆车,但这辆车的总速度恒定为 $c$,且只能在两个方向上分配速度:**空间**(你的移动)和 **时间**(你的老化)。
- 速度守恒公式: 你在时空中的运动遵循这个守恒关系:

  $$(\text{空间速度})^2 + (\text{时间速度})^2 = c^2$$

- **资源分配的比喻:**
  - **坐着不动时:** 你把所有的速度资源都用在了**时间**轴上。你在空间速度为 0,所以你在时间上全速前进(正常变老,一秒就是一秒)。
  - **高速运动时:** 如果你分出一部分速度给**空间**(跑得飞快),那么留给**时间**的速度就变少了。
  - **结果:** 这就是**时间膨胀(Time Dilation)**。对于旁观者来说,你的时间流逝变慢了。

### 3. 光子的视角:“时间停止”

**文稿观点:** “如果你真的能在空间上达到光速 C,那么你在时间轴上的速度分量就变成了 0……对光子来说是同一个瞬间。”

**深度解析:**

- **洛伦兹因子:** 当物体无限接近光速时,时间膨胀效应趋于无穷大。

- **主观体验:** 如果你是一个光子,从 40 亿光年外的恒星飞到地球,这 40 亿年的旅程对你来说是**不存在**的。你的“出生”和“撞击视网膜”发生在同一个时刻($t=0$)。对于光子而言,宇宙在它运动的方向上长度收缩为零,起点和终点是重叠的。

### 4. 为什么光速不能是无穷大?(因果性问题)

**文稿观点:** “如果速度上限 C 无穷大……所有的时刻会坍缩成一个时刻……宇宙就不再是一个有结构的过程。”

深度解析:

如果 $c = \infty$:

1. **同时性的崩塌:** 过去、现在和未来将不复存在,所有事情都会在瞬间同时发生。
2. **相互作用:** 遥远星系的引力会瞬间拉扯你,全宇宙所有恒星的光会瞬间照在你身上(奥伯斯佯谬会变得极其可怕)。
3. **独立性的丧失:** 正如文稿所说,正是因为信息传递需要时间(速度上限),物体之间才能有“距离”和“界限”。如果没有这个延迟,万物将是一团分不清你我的混沌。

### 5. 精细结构常数与生命的诞生

**文稿观点:** “如果你改了光速 C,这会影响到精细结构常数的生成……恒星内部生成碳核氧的比例就会失调。”

深度解析:

这是文稿中最硬核的部分,涉及精细结构常数(Fine Structure Constant, $\alpha$)。

- **公式:** $\alpha = \frac{e^2}{\hbar c}$
  - $e$:电子电荷
  - $\hbar$:普朗克常数
  - $c$:光速

- **它的作用:** 这个常数(约等于 1/137)决定了电磁相互作用的强度。它直接控制着电子如何绕原子核运动,也就是控制着**化学反应**。
- **4% 的生死线:** 文稿提到了恒星内部的**3α过程(Triple-Alpha Process)**。三个氦原子核聚变成一个碳-12原子核,需要非常特定的共振能量(霍伊尔态)。如果 $c$ 发生变化导致 $\alpha$ 改变超过 4%,这种共振就会失效。
  - **后果:** 宇宙中将只有氢和氦,没有碳,也就没有有机化学,更没有生命。

### 6. 人择原理(幸存者偏差)

**文稿观点:** “并不是因为光速恰好是这个数值,而是我们能存在于这个宇宙,本身就意味着速度上限 C,必须是如今的样子。”

深度解析:

这回答了哲学上的“为什么”:

- 我们并不是“幸运”地生在了一个参数完美的宇宙里。
- 而是因为,如果参数不完美(比如光速太快或太慢),宇宙就会是一片死寂或瞬间毁灭,根本不会有智慧生命(观察者)来提出“为什么光速是这个数”的问题。
- 这就是**人择原理(Anthropic Principle)**:我们看到的宇宙之所以是这个样子,是因为只有这个样子的宇宙才能允许观察者的存在。

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### 总结归纳表

| **概念**         | **解释**                                                                                   |
| ---------------- | ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ |
| **光速 ($c$)**   | 并不是“光”的速度,而是**因果律的上限**,是宇宙处理信息的最大带宽。                         |
| **无质量粒子**   | 光子没有质量(没有惯性),所以它们**必须**以宇宙允许的极限速度飞行,无法减速。             |
| **时间膨胀**     | 你在时空中的总速度恒定为 $c$。如果你在空间跑得越快,你在时间上就走得越慢。                 |
| **精细结构常数** | 一个由光速参与定义的常数,决定了化学反应的性质。光速一变,恒星就造不出碳,生命就无法诞生。 |
| **人择原理**     | 我们之所以看到这些物理常数,是因为如果它们不是这样,我们根本就不存在。                     |
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2 Nobody Cares Most people are too focused on their own lives to care about your wins or failures—free yourself to act boldly without seeking external validation.
3 The Empty Boat Mindset Anger often comes from assuming harmful intent; most life “collisions” are with “empty boats”—assume no malice to regain emotional control.
4 The Last Time Every experience has a final occurrence (e.g., last hug, last bedtime story)—live each moment with full presence as if it’s the last.
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16 Locus of Control An internal locus (focusing on your responses and agency) builds resilience; external blames outside forces—choose internal.
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